In any career, you should be trusted to represent yourself very well in a social setting. You are always being watched! These manners are visible signs that you are polished, sophisticated, knowledgeable, & professional. The focus is the meeting, formal, or occasion. Not the food. Put your best foot forward. Speak clearly and maintain eye contact. Be confident and happy. Expectations of social & dining behaviors are a must for professionals. Don't make a poor impression.

It's good to remember "Solids to the left, Liquids to the Right" when sitting to dine formally. Choose your silverware from the outside in beginning with your 1st course. Place your napkin in your lap when the host does. In a large group do it as soon as you are seated. It will remain until you complete your meal. Do not make a fist around the handle of your utensils. Always offer to your left & pass to your right. The salt & pepper are passed together at all times.

You don't get a 2nd chance at a 1st impression. A formal, meeting, or event is the best place to make a bad impression. Shake hands & introduce yourself to everyone possible. Say "hello!" Tell others that it is nice to meet them. Be aware of your body language showing confidence or nervousness. Social skills are important. Avoid bragging, judging others, & worrying. Give advice and talk about appropriate subjects. The news, weather, surroundings, & great experiences!

Properly & promptly return your R.S.V.P confirming or regretting your attendance. Be sure your attire is appropriate for the function. Always say "please" and "thank you", be polite to all guest. Let your host/hostess know you had a great time & how much you enjoyed yourself. Send a "Thank you" by mail to each attendee 1-2 days post your hosted an event.

The simple things to remember* Always place your cell phone on silent prior to meals or interviews. Do this without text messaging or watching it moment to moment. Men, you should never wear a hat at the table or during a formal meeting. Do not smoke before or at a meeting, formal event, or dinner. If you drop a utensil within reach, pick it up. However, ask for a new on to use. If you must use the restroom, say "Excuse me a moment." Not "I have to use the bathroom."